An understandable response to a totally lame situation…
But how does being so angry about it make you feel?
What if I could show you a completely different way of viewing everything, like looking through a pair of magic, pink binoculars?
What if that new way of seeing things made you feel nice and fuzzy on the inside?
What if I stopped asking patronising questions?
Forgiving means letting go of anger or hatred directed at a person. It’s usually the last thing anyone feels like doing, even after their own death. But there is good news.
It is possible to forgive a complete A-hole.
That’s because forgiveness doesn’t excuse behaviour that was wrong or unfair. It doesn’t make it okay to commit murder, genocide or steal biscuits.
It just gives you the distance, presence, power and mojo to move on.